Waiting on Us

Photo Credit: Eirik Solheim (Creative Commons)

I am not a very patient person.

When I get an idea in my head, when I make a goal to accomplish something, when I feel God giving me a promise, I want it as soon as possible.

I don’t want to wait a few days to get my haircut.
I don’t like waiting for the book to come in the mail.
I don’t want to wait six more months until I can go to Czech.
I don’t like waiting until I’m at home to check my email (thank you iPhone!).
Sometimes, I don’t even like waiting the 30 minutes for a meal to cook.

I hate waiting for what I want.
And I know I’m not the only one.

We live in a microwave kind of world.

We can get a meal in 5 minutes or less. We can change our TV channel with the push of a button. We can access our money, transfer funds or even get paid without even going to the bank. Many stores are open 24 hours a day just in case we want something at midnight.

We can get news while it’s happening, instead of waiting for the next newspaper to be printed.
We can buy what we want, even if we don’t have the money.
We can access information, buy products and talk with others at the push of a button.

We can get what we want, when we want it, with little-to-no waiting.

Except with God.
He tends to make us wait.

Abraham and Sarah waited 75 years for a child.
Jacob waited 14 years to make Rebekah his wife.
David waited decades to take his role as king.
Joseph waited 40 years for his dream to come true.
The Israelites waited 40 years in the desert before entering the Promised Land, and even then they had to fight for it.

God doesn’t seem to give us what we want when we want it.

He makes us wait.
And believe.
And hope.
And wrestle.
And cry out.
And trust that, even though His promise isn’t happening, He is still in control.

And that He has a plan for the waiting.

“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”
2 Peter 3:9

God doesn’t make us wait because He’s mad at us. He doesn’t withhold a promise because He’s punishing us. He doesn’t act slowly, drag His feet or just like to watch us squirm under the pressure.

We have to wait because God is waiting on us.

He’s waiting on us to develop our character.
He’s waiting for us to deal with our baggage.
He’s giving us time to prepare our hearts, draw closer to Him and face the darkness within ourselves.

God is patient, and gives us the time we need to be ready to receive His promise, even if it seems like He is the one in the wrong.

What is God giving you time to deal with as you wait on His promise?

  • http://www.ramblingbarba.com Ken Hagerman

    You would think with all of that tech making life instant that we would have tons of left-over time to spend with God. Not so, not for me anyway. I find to many dumb ways to fill that extra time.

    This waiting reminds me of dough rising for homemade bread. You have to let it do its thing if you want the payout, hot delicious treats. Sometimes I need to let something develop. I think of that old saying “the good is the enemy of the great.”

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      I love the bread analogy, Ken! We really do have to allow God to develop something in us during our seasons of waiting. Bread doesn’t rise over night, neither will our character. 

  • http://www.theanalogoustruth.wordpress.com/ Arny

    I’m still waiting to finish up our album…

    I waiting and being patient that HE will open door I can’t even see yet…and I know he will…

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      The beautiful about waiting on Him to open the door, is that there is no mistake it was God who moved, and not your own efforts. Praying for you and your album Arny!

  • http://twitter.com/_ThomasMason Thomas Mason

    I believe God is giving me time to deal with my baggage which I’m doing right now. Once the darkness dissipates, the light will emerge. I’m looking forward to walking in the light instead of stumbling in the darkness.

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      Every great man of God in scriptures went through a season where God broke them, gave them the opportunity to face their darkness and molded them into the men they were meant to be. We should consider it a great sign when God does the same for us.

  • http://twitter.com/sarah_c_kurtz Sarah Kurtz

    Thank you for sharing! This is such a challenge to me at this point in my life!! I thank you for the encouragement. 

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      I’m glad this post encouraged you, Sarah! It’s something I’ve been dealing with as well and needed to hear myself.

  • http://www.discipulus.us/ Moe

    Man, I was waiting for someone to say this (get it? Ha! I’m so creative) :)

    Waiting is God’s vehicle to shape character. Nothing yells out, “I don’t trust you” like giving up while waiting. Thing is, God is never late. As if time was ours. Time is His and He does and shows up when He is ready to do so. 

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      Moe! You are a creative genius! (oh crap, I was just sarcastic).

      I love your point about how giving up is like yelling “I don’t trust You!” God really is in control, even if His timing and our timing are different. Great addition, Moe!

  • Anonymous

    What a great reminder. I’m not a very patient person but many times God has made me wait. I think we was and still is teaching me how to be patient and wait for His own timing.

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      I believe God uses seasons of waiting as a way to help us learn to trust Him more. I know it’s been in my own times of waiting that I’ve learned to trust him completely. If you get the chance, there are a few books you should pick up:
      - Anonymous, by Alicia Britt Chole
      - Ruthless Trust by Brennan Manning
      - Plan B by Pete Wilson
      - Angry Conversations with God by…I can’t remember right now.

      All are about how waiting on God develops us. Great reads. Really helped me in my season of waiting.

      • Anonymous

        Jason,
        I have not read any of these books but they are going on my book list. Thank you for sharing them.

        • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

          I recommend reading them in this order, as they do kind of build off the topics from each other:

          - Plan B
          - Anonymous
          - Angry Conversations with God
          - Ruthless Trust

  • http://taunetnelel.blogspot.com/ JepB

    Patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. I love the flow of this post : “And trust that, even though His promise isn’t happening, He is still in control. And that He has a plan for the waiting.” God is giving me time to know Him more and seek Him first. Meanwhile I’ve had to let go of some things/ people. I am encouraged to know that God is still in control. I have to learn to be still and wait upon Him. Thanks

    PS: A small correction on this line : “Jacob waited 14 years to make Rebekah his wife.” Jacob waited for Rachel, i believe. Their is however an aspect of  Isaac waiting for Rebekah.

    • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

      Thanks for reading and commenting, JB! I am learning more and more what it means to trust God in the waiting. It’s not always easy because, as I said, I tend to get excited about God’s promises and want them now (who doesn’t?!), but He’s using that time to develop something deeper in me.